This year started with a very high note for some of us,if not all.Standards were set,goals laid out and all manner of things we thought could take us to the next level.Sometimes the distance between you and your well cooked goal is nothing but that bunch of wayward friends.check them out peeps.

1.The stereotypes

These ones will never let you move out of your own way.They want you to conform to some laid down rules and patterns probably you dont know of.They want you squeeze yourself in a box and do what “society” thinks is right.With such kind of people,trust me,you will not go beyond your strengths.Get yourself open minded pals who will help you out of a mindset cocoon

2.The pessimists

My version of these ones is nothing but dream killers..You will tell them of that “kaproject” you are thinking about and boooom!your eggs are killed even before they are laid!they will never see anything good in you and however hard you try to impress them,you end up being the fool.Do not expect to achieve anything with such creatures around you.Infact,do not negotiate about it.Leave that friendship faster than you fixed yourself in.

3.The pacesetters

I will tell you for sure that 90% of human beings have such kind of friends.These ones will only allow you to do something once they themselves have done and succeeded..They are the ones who carry around “successometers” to measure the condition of your ability to succeed..Obviously they will not allow you to do what they haven’t..From these,do not expect those super-powerful motivational quotes from great men..They want you to be nothing more than a common onyango,kamau or wanjiru..My friends even the Holy scriptures are clear,”Resist the devil and he will flee from you….”FLEEEEEE

4.The “common mwananchi”

Haven’t you heard that eagles do not hang out with chicken??well,you are an eagle in your own way.People whose thinking capacity is way below your own have a tendency to bring you down if not destroy you.Some scientific study has revealed that secretely thinking you are better than others increases your mental health.Definitely a good mental health is a pathway to getting better each day!It is not pride,but self respect!!!!

5.The “spoilt brats”

They say bad company ruins good morals..Am not trying to be religious but of course if  that “religion” is what you need to become better,go for it.You will not hang out with thieves and end up a priest.Some friend of mine tells me that its okay to hang out with freaks and that its about personal choices..Hell noo!in one way or another you will end up dead if not behind bars.Its okay to say no to what you believe is wrong .Its okay to loose these kind of friends and keep your life.Didn’t you make it in your mother’s womb for nine good months ALONE and did just fine????😏

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